I want to begin by saying I am not attacking any one person, I have just had my fill of egotistical, self-involved people. Is it a new trend that I don't know about to be rude, insensitive, and unconsiderate for no particular reason? It seems to me that as a society very few people have respect for anyones feelings but their own. I am not saying that everything everyone says should be flowery and sugar coated, but a little courtesy would go a long way. For example if you thought that somebodywas talking to loud, would it really be so hard to say "exuse me would you mind lowering your voice?" opposed to "Hey loudmouth, shut up!" It takes no more effort to speak with respect than it does to use blunt honesty. Which I will agree that some people just do not take a hint, and eventually you have to be blunt with them. But about 70% of poeple I have contact with in person, on the phone, or on the internet just don't give a crap about respecting the people who do take hints and they jump straight to being insulting and rude.
Now if you answer HONESTLY if somebody came up to YOU and said" hey you are loud and your voice grates on my nerves like nails on a chalkboard" what would you do, feel, and think? Like my mom and dad has always said "if you can't take it, don't dish it out"
I don't know if this is just a fad that will pass eventually, or just the fast that most people nowadays do not know how to be respectfull, or (more likely) they honestly don't give a crap how they make others feel. Either way I would like to make two requests to everyone reading this: 1) If you can try to explain to me why people don't care about showing anyone else respect(even if they receive it from that person) 2) if you are one of these people that hold this belief, try to be nice and respectful to every person you come in contact with and let me know how it goes.
Thanks for listening (reading)!
